How to Be the Man for Your Girlfriend

Every guy wants to be all macho for his girlfriend but ends up getting dumped for some stupid move or line. Girls like a guy who is mature and absolutely adores her. Read this guide for everything you need to know.


STEPS...


1. Be protective, but not overprotective. Make her feel as if you would do anything to make sure she is safe, but don't do the "Who did you see today, who did you talk to, where did you go?" kind of thing.


2. If at any time you can somehow say the words "I just don't want you to get hurt," or something equally as caring/sweet, go for it.


3. Be sweet, but also courageous. Girls absolutely love a guy who is sweet but can be the hero that saves her life.


4. Put your arm around her waist, not around her shoulder. It's more romantic.


5. Don't get annoyed when she wants you to meet all her friends, keep your arms/hands on her, make out with her in public, etc. Girls like to show off their hot guys.


6. Be romantic. Be the first to kiss her, don't make her kiss you...unless she just does it.


7. Flirt. Flirt with her all the time, but don't be annoying. If she seems to be raising her voice and staring at you when you do it, it's the sign to stop.


8. Be confident and brave. Girls love boys who aren't shy.


9. If there are bullies at you and your girlfriend's school, you can be a hero for your girlfriend if she is being picked on. How to protect people from bullies has more information.


10. Dress like you care. Wear a belt. Keep yourself clean. She'll notice.


TIPS....

Don't act macho.


WARNINGS...


* Don't overdo it.

* This guide doesn't explain personal issues that everyone faces. Even if you do your best, life happens. Don't put yourself down if you were always there for her but she ended the relationship over more complicated reasons.

How to treat your girlfriends....

STEPS:

1. Make sure you never lie to her. You will be found out.


2. Never refuse to kiss her in public, just say to yourself, "If they laugh at me, they're jealous!". Of course, there are some people who think this is shame--try using neutral forms of expressing (eg. letters) instead!


3. Don't be afraid to touch her. Why would she be going out with you if she didn't want your touch?


4. Compliment her. It will mean a lot to her.


5. Always open doors for her,This is basic etiquette for a gentleman. Watch her go into the house, stay there until the door closes!


6. Never make a fool out of a girl in front of anyone. This could lead to hurt feelings, and her hand at your face.


7. Never comment about other girls' looks. This could lead to a break up.


8. Be yourself. Don't put on a fake show of yourself.


9. Your girlfriend is not one of your buddies, so don't talk to her like one or treat her like one.


10. Don't use her!!!


11. Make her feel like the BEST THING in your life. She probably is!!


12. When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention. Make sure you listen to her and talk to her. Just sitting beside her DOESN'T count as time together.


13. LITTLE things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.


14. Be the man, pay for things at times. Girls don't like to have "kept" men.


15. Dating means treating a girl out.



TIPS...

* Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Buy your girlfriend gifts on normal days. If you have no idea what gift to be given, send her a letter in a card (begin with affection).


* Hugs will give off the message that you are affectionate, and want to hold her.




WARNINGS...


* Some girlfriends are really fussy. They would demand a lot from their boyfriends yet cross their arms and do nothing for them in return. These girls do not deserve a caring boyfriend.


* Some girlfriends may have friends in your office. Never talk about your sexual prowess in the workplace.


* It's okay to have friends (male or female), however, if your girlfriend has a problem with the female friends you should be willing to compromise and change for her happiness.